The Conversations We Should All Be Having  With Our Inner Girl Child

Oftentimes we look back and reflect on moments in our childhood that still impact our present.  While some become joyful core memories, not all core memories impact us positively. Today on International Day of The Girl child we want to focus on our healing. We all have elements of trauma that linger from our past. 

At Gazzetea we’ve compiled a few inner dialogue journal prompts based on advice we wish we knew sooner. Today, let’s heal our inner girl child by reframing  our  inner dialogue with sound advice prompts!

We’ll get  you started and you fill in the rest.

Prompt 1

Dear Inner Girl Child,  healthy boundaries matter. Learn to say no without feeling guilty. Your emotional and mental well-being matters and you have the power to assert your limits despite feeling or experiencing________ I am proud of you for acknowledging your worth and learning to say no to things that do not serve your growth. You deserve to prioritise yourself. Here is a list you can commit to so  you can successfully achieve this: …. 

Prompt 2

Dear Inner Girl Child, understand your finances, savings, investments, and plan for your future. Financial independence provides freedom. As an adult you better understand the value and importance of money. I am proud of you for _____________(insert any financial achievement regardless of how big or small) and I want you to commit to _________(financial goals) because you can! Regardless of how long it may take, Inner Girl Child I want you to know that I will be here for you, rooting you on as you achieve financial literacy and independence. Your goal of ___________ is possible for you because…

Prompt 3

Dear Inner Girl Child, comparison steals joy. Inner Girl Child, I know in today’s world of social media it’s so easy to get caught up in the highlights of others and compare your life to social media posts, but I want you to focus on your own path. Comparing yourself to others only leads to unnecessary stress. Recently you’ve been struggling with_______ and I want you to know that your success is on the horizon because______

Prompt 4

Dear Inner Girl Child, your body is your own. Love your body regardless of societal standards. Your body is the vessel that has carried you through life and deserves nurturing. Perhaps you’ve heard repeatedly, “Umenenepa!” (you have gained weight) or “mbona umekonda?” (you have become skinny) And these statements have made you feel insecure. I want you to know that…

A few more prompts include: Accepting that friendships change and the importance of forgiveness and apologies.

At Gazzetea we’re all about growth. We want to see you thrive and succeed in your inner life as well as your outer life. We hope these journal prompts serve as a stepping stone in your healing journey. 

Happy International Day of the Girl Child! 

Love, Gazzettea. 

P.S- If you choose to take part in this journey and use our prompts! Tag us @gazzetea_

Sending you virtual hugs!

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